So, I joined a LA Fitness last night. I'd already made the decision to join before I walked in so I dont feel like Ive been "had" or anything. I'm very excited about it because it's such a nice gym, reminiscent of my days at the UNT rec center where I spent many a happy night with Kiran or other friends. I enjoy working out there because they've got tons of machines, and I can always find the one I want. Theyve also got a lap pool, a sauna, a free weights room, weight machines, and classes if I want. Plus... And I can't stress this enough: EYE CANDY. Holy lord almighty!! I feel like such a pig being in that place!! Those fit dudes pumping iron, running on those treadmills, watching their thick forearms and Disney prince biceps tense up when they do curls... DAAAAAAAYEM!!! I've never understood the draw of a "nice butt" until now.
Alrighty. That's enough of that. *Wipes drool off chin.*
So, Boy H actually called me the other day when he was on his way to watch a football game with his buddies. He seemed to enjoy himself. Haven't heard from him since. Thus far, no talk of meeting up yet. I may drop a hint next time he texts me.
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Monday, January 16, 2012
Who even knows anymore??
So Chem 2 went out just as suddenly and mysteriously as he came in. So that's...done.
There's a dude from Match that I've been texting with. I forget where I am with match... Maybe Boy F? G?? Let's just call it an even H.
So, Boy H winked, and sent me an email, and we emailed back and forth for a few days. He seemed to be into me, so I told him to friend me on FB, and he did. So I checked out his pictures and stuff, which just reaffirmed what a great guy he is, and how much personality he has. So I sent him and email telling him I'm glad he found me, and I commented on a couple of his pictures(which showed he and I had more commonalities...). So, later that evening, I got a message back that said, "Usually i don't FB people unless I've met them in person, but you seem cool enough to at least be a good friend. Check ya later."
...???
What does that even mean? So I debated whether or not I should send him a message back, or assume he wasn't into me anymore or what. So, the next day(yes, I waited a day), and sent him a message on match that said, 'If it makes you uncomfortable, we can just message on match til you get to know me better, or you can call or text me if you'd prefer." So I gave him my number, and late last night, he freakin texted me! But it was just more friendly talk. So I'm like...why did you friend me on FB, AND text me if you only wanna be friends??? So, we texted for a while, him being slow on the uptake the whole time, (let me remind you, HE texted ME...). So I told him he can text me today if he wants.
So...nothing yet to report.
It's pathetic. This is my life now...
There's a dude from Match that I've been texting with. I forget where I am with match... Maybe Boy F? G?? Let's just call it an even H.
So, Boy H winked, and sent me an email, and we emailed back and forth for a few days. He seemed to be into me, so I told him to friend me on FB, and he did. So I checked out his pictures and stuff, which just reaffirmed what a great guy he is, and how much personality he has. So I sent him and email telling him I'm glad he found me, and I commented on a couple of his pictures(which showed he and I had more commonalities...). So, later that evening, I got a message back that said, "Usually i don't FB people unless I've met them in person, but you seem cool enough to at least be a good friend. Check ya later."
...???
What does that even mean? So I debated whether or not I should send him a message back, or assume he wasn't into me anymore or what. So, the next day(yes, I waited a day), and sent him a message on match that said, 'If it makes you uncomfortable, we can just message on match til you get to know me better, or you can call or text me if you'd prefer." So I gave him my number, and late last night, he freakin texted me! But it was just more friendly talk. So I'm like...why did you friend me on FB, AND text me if you only wanna be friends??? So, we texted for a while, him being slow on the uptake the whole time, (let me remind you, HE texted ME...). So I told him he can text me today if he wants.
So...nothing yet to report.
It's pathetic. This is my life now...
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
More frustrated than ever!!
December was a slow month for me, dating-wise. I went ahead and renewed my subscription to match.com for the extra 6-months. I also signed up for Christian Mingle, and Chemistry.com. Christian Mingle sucks, and it is really no different than any of the other dating sites. There are plenty of nasty d-bags on there too. Chemistry.com has been ok. I've talked with a few guys, none worth assigning a number... except one.
I went to Boston for the week between Christmas and New Years. No, I didn't meet anyone in Boston, if that's what you were thinking... I did flirt with a security guard on the Subway who had a thick Boston accent. If I thought it would go anywhere, I probably woulda stayed and talked with him. He was pretty cute. Anyway, so on New Years Eve, I got a message from a guy, we'll call him Chem 2, and we ended up texting all day long. Seriously. ALLLLLLL day long. Then, he called me at midnight, and we talked for the next three hours. I haven't had that kind of talking chemistry since...well...the boy that started it all, who is not to be named... Anway, he kept me company the rest of the trip, and we talked for at least 5 hours every single night the rest of the week! I don't even think Seth and I ever talked that long!! We might've...but I think that was a high school thing... Anyway, he lives 5 hours from me, and he's got kind of a unique...situation...going on that makes it even more complicated. Anyway, I went to see him at his place over the weekend, and it was the most awkward first date ever, but we got through it, and laughed about it later, so we kept talking. But since Monday, our conversations have gotten shorter and today...I got ONE text from him. I texted him a few times to see if he was ok, i got nothin...so I finally called him, left a message. He called me back but didn't leave a message. So, I decided, at this point, I'm going to wait on him to contact me. I don't understand people...
So, let this be a reminder to all you married people having problems: THIS is what I'M going through in order to have what YOU have. NEVER take it for granted.
I went to Boston for the week between Christmas and New Years. No, I didn't meet anyone in Boston, if that's what you were thinking... I did flirt with a security guard on the Subway who had a thick Boston accent. If I thought it would go anywhere, I probably woulda stayed and talked with him. He was pretty cute. Anyway, so on New Years Eve, I got a message from a guy, we'll call him Chem 2, and we ended up texting all day long. Seriously. ALLLLLLL day long. Then, he called me at midnight, and we talked for the next three hours. I haven't had that kind of talking chemistry since...well...the boy that started it all, who is not to be named... Anway, he kept me company the rest of the trip, and we talked for at least 5 hours every single night the rest of the week! I don't even think Seth and I ever talked that long!! We might've...but I think that was a high school thing... Anyway, he lives 5 hours from me, and he's got kind of a unique...situation...going on that makes it even more complicated. Anyway, I went to see him at his place over the weekend, and it was the most awkward first date ever, but we got through it, and laughed about it later, so we kept talking. But since Monday, our conversations have gotten shorter and today...I got ONE text from him. I texted him a few times to see if he was ok, i got nothin...so I finally called him, left a message. He called me back but didn't leave a message. So, I decided, at this point, I'm going to wait on him to contact me. I don't understand people...
So, let this be a reminder to all you married people having problems: THIS is what I'M going through in order to have what YOU have. NEVER take it for granted.
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